Third, make decisions based on what is best for you, not how it may or may not appear to others. You ll never, ever be able to please everyone, so stop trying to. You ll never, ever be right in everybody s eyes, so stop trying to. When you make a decision, ask yourself, Why am I making this decision? Instead of pushing, I lessened the pressure on my throat and kept singing lightly, watching and waiting for my sound to show up. I breathed deeply, imagining the sound coming up from my center. Gradually, the sound smoothed out until I was singing with the connected sound I know to be me. Standing there, experimenting with finding my voice, <b>I started thinking about the parallels between finding my singing or speaking voice and finding my symbolic or metaphorical voice. Title: How Often Each Day Should I Read or Say My Desire Statement? Word Count: 269 Summary: Once you create a Desire Statement, you have completed step 1 and 2 of the three step Law of Attraction formula. Now your work is to Allow. Spend most of your time and energy there. Keep finding proof that you are manifesting something that is in alignment to your desire. We re adults here and we want to be treated as such unless it s not in our favor and then we want to blame someone else, anyone but ourselves. I think it is time each of us assumed responsibility in life, by being liable for our actions and taking ownership of them. Please for goodness sake, stop making excuses for your life. We would tell people the garage sale money was being used to help Katie get to the camp. Do you know that people would bring us stuff to sell or tell us to come by and pick up stuff. You may not believe this, but I had a sixteen-foot horse trailer loaded up when I got ready to have the sale. By the end of the sale, we were restocked with new items. You could ditch the map and just go by gut instinct, but it ll probably take you much longer to get there, if you got there at all. And who knows where you would end up on route! This is how it works with therapy sessions. The therapist is the map, and you are the driver. As a therapist, I use my skills, my knowledge and my experience to guide you safely through the quagmire to your chosen destination.