Then you actually believe them, so you play the game of fixing all of their problems! You become the rescuer? I did! I didn t realize it at the time of course because that is a life lesson that I was working on mastering and boy did we play a good game together! We danced in victim consciousness together creating disaster after disaster for ten years! People will only follow you if they see that you know where you are going. Remember that bumper sticker? The one that says, don't follow me, I'm lost too? The same holds true for leadership. If you yourself do not know where you're headed to, chances are people will not follow you at all. You yourself must know the vision of the organization. If you have had therapy, are in therapy or considering therapy then you need to understand this secret to lasting and effective change. Keywords: goals, goal setting, motivation, success, living motivation, jason johns, sanjo, hypnosis, achieving your goals Article Body: I m going to share a secret with you now, so just come a little bit closer. It is more comprehensive and less self-seeking than eros. Storge: family love between parent/child or between two incredibly close people. It is instinctive, and does not need to be requited. Agape: considered purest, most comprehensive and most mysterious form of love, which loves unconditionally. Agape dissolves our separateness from God, others, and ourselves, as instead of seeking the security and consolation of seeking to be loved, we are love. Becker asked gleefully. Five years ago. Congratulations! Thanks, she grinned. I didn t know his last name, Becker said apologetically. Otherwise, I probably would have known you were the one who inspired my daughter by the talk you gave at her school this afternoon. Yes, I did give that talk this afternoon. If a trainee asks a question which emits discontent among other trainees, let the classroom know that they are in class to learn and that even the most seemingly silly question could help reinforce answers to other questions. Remind them that no one knows everything, and the moment they stop learning, is the moment they stop growing.