These were, distinction, pass or fail. I hate this word fail, in their eyes I failed twice, but did I though? As already stated, I could not have tried any harder, therefore how dare they call me a failure. This result of fail is also a very negative and some what cruel mark. The question I would like answered, is did I fail by a long way, only a couple of points or quite a few points? From time to time I have to ask myself questions like: Who am I? What am I doing? Do I like doing it? Am I good at it? Will it help the world? and How does the world know I'm doing it? It began this time when I asked a friend and colleague to help me with the process of reexamining my business card and letterhead. Try and think about it, 99% of the news we hear or read is bad news. Starting the day with bad news does not seem to be a sensible thing to do. A religious connection is also recommended. Being part of a religious group with its singing, sacraments, chanting, prayers and meditations foster inner peace. There is something about being a people person who knows how to stir the energetic side of one individual, and more so when you mix it up with an entire team. 4. To question a person by his or her performance is sometimes required, but never question their knowledge or their intelligence. Sadly, I have seen a few mistakes from past coaches who never seem to understand what a player has to go through to get the job right. People purchase items because of fear not measuring up to those around them. And on and on it goes. You don t have to live with fear. Here are 3 simple keys to getting rid of fear. First, start by realizing that God truly loves you and that His love for you is unconditional. The Bible teaches that nothing can separate you from His love. Once you have the list, spend some time reveling in those wonders. Think too about how you could re-experience those things again. 3. <b>Make a list of wonders you find each day or week.</b> Again, a great journaling task, or a great routine to add to your planning for a new week. 4. <b>Plan a mini-vacation or a day trip to someplace wonderful for you.