If we sit back and live the life we have been given it will always stay the same. Achieving can become addictive, as a smoker for most of my life and tried to pack up more times than one can remember. There were plenty of reasons to quit, children, the cost and health were the top ones. However I always could find a good excuse to start again, an argument with the wife, a special occasion, down the pub with other smokers that was good enough reason. </b>Losing my voice is signal for me to stop, look, and practice finding it again. Gradually I get clear on what "my voice" sounds and feels like, and I'm able to regain it more easily. </ul> As Martha Graham suggests, <b>find the vitality, the life force, and the energy that is your voice. His ability to dance, sing and act very well made him a much better comedian because his options broadened on how he could entertain people. Many of us are good at what we do in our careers. Becoming versatile could only make us better. 4. Hope entertained Military Troops from World War II to Operation Desert Storm Hope did a major service to increase morale among military personnel. Gathering Materials Thorough planning to incorporate all the materials needed is important and worth the effort. A small table top covered with an elegant lace, add votive candles, a goblet filled with water and the bottom lined with stones or crystals, fresh flowers, a potted plant, a gentle breeze from a window or electric fan, a statue of your God/dess, or whatever deity you believe in. Don t feel stupid and doomed forever just because you failed on a science quiz. There s always a next time. Make rooms for self improvement. *Take things one at a time. You don t expect black sheep s to be goody-two-shoes in just a snap of a finger. Self improvement is a one day at a time process. *Self improvement results to inner stability, personality development and dig this . A large percentage of our words, thoughts and energy are given to what is going on around us. By understanding that you are a powerful, magical being- you regain the power that is wasted on things you cannot control. You cannot control another person s emotions or actions. If someone is in your life and they are causing you distress- it is because of your choice to remain part of their life.