There is life itself with friends, family, and everything that is naturally before us. We just have to look around and take it in. Perhaps it is time to make a list of all the good things we have to grateful for. Are there people in your life that you would miss dearly if they were not here? When you go for a walk don't you see, hear, and smell, many things to appreciate and feel nice about? What motivates you? It's an answer you have to find out for yourself. There are so many things that can make everyone happy, but to choose one of the may be the hardest part. It's not like you can't have one serving of your favorite food in a buffet and that's it. Just try it piece by piece. 10. What Really Makes You Tick? The knowledge and technical expertise you have must be clearly imparted to other people. Also, you can not be a good leader and unless you have good judgment. You must be able to assess situations, weigh the pros and cons of any decision, and actively seek out a solution. It is this judgment that your subordinates will come to rely upon. The higher acceptance we need to grasp is the maturity to surrender our restlessness, this confusion, this state of is this all there is? It seems in our resistance we are actually further denying our next exciting chapter we have a chance at recapturing, <B>BOB D.</b><br< (<b>B</b>oulevard <b>O</b>f <b>B</b>roken <b>D</b>reams). Tell them that they can discuss questions offline if they are not comfortable asking a question in front of others. 3. If someone asks a great question, acknowledge him or her right away. 4. If a trainee asks a question which emits discontent among other trainees, let the classroom know that they are in class to learn and that even the most seemingly silly question could help reinforce answers to other questions. I decided I needed a big change in attitude and started to read books about life and about positive thinking etc. These were the things I had to take on board: It is not important what other people think of you, it is what you think that counts You need to start to like yourself There are various things about your person, you do not like but which you can not change.